In Paktia’s Samkani district, a group of young people organized a gathering to honor their elders, breaking the tradition of only honoring people after their death.
The youth said that harmful traditions such as giving away of a girl or woman in marriage as blood price to settle a conflict over murder, high dowries, and other negative customs still exist in society and must be ended.
Amir Arian, a resident of Samkani district, said: "The purpose of this gathering and festival was to eliminate harmful traditions so that our elders and youth can live honorably, to end the practice of honoring people only after their death, and to respect them while they are alive."
Another resident, Bahram Afghan, said: "Among the harmful traditions are giving girls to settle disputes and marriages without the consent of girls and boys, some of these practices have been reduced, but some still remain."
The youth and residents of Samkani district said they feel joy in honoring people during their lifetime and believe that following the example of their elders is the key to success.
Abdul Basir Pardes, another resident of Chamkani, said: "We respect our elders because they are experienced. Experience comes with age, and their deeds are recorded in history. We should avoid bad practices and follow the path of our elders."
Tribal elder Bakhtar Gul Rahimi said: "In every matter, we must consult our elders because they know the outcomes and are aware of history. It’s like building a canal — consultations with elders are necessary."
Tribal unions and councils in Paktia are seen as influential in resolving social issues.
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